My advice would be to throw away your existing wiring diagram as it will only lead to confusion and frustration and, armed with a multimeter, stick to basic logic. You know that the first switch position should turn the pilot light, instrument light and tail light on. Therefore look at the switch to see which terminals need to be connected in order to make this (and nothing else) happen.......
I agree. It's useful to make up a set of truth tables (positions 1 - n across the top and down the side) then systematically check each pair for continuity in each switch position. It's the only reliable way of knowing what the switch is doing.